morally- obtuse, what- nots!

This is the trend. Join the hype. Be one of us.

My neighbor for about a lifetime now, nonchalantly said that her classmate from highschool, was pregnant. All the while I thought she was just joking. I knew about the girl, she was apparently my schoolmate from highschool. Now, she officially joined the bandwagon of what-now-sex-starved-teens.

It is almost just as normal as murder and kidnap cases. Knowing someone from your neighborhood is preggy with his then-boyfriend-turned-dad-to-be. Just a week ago, as I was brushing through the torments of enrollment, I happen to get pass someone. Clad in sweatshirt under the oppressive heat of the sun, donning a wash- faded loose pants. As if trying to conceal that little bulge.

Here comes the issue of PMS.That oh-so-juicy topic of ORGASM, FELLATIO and everything that contribute to the accolades of SEX. Time and time again, our parents would barage us with morals, no matter how deafening, about indulging ourselves in sex.

I, for one, don't have anything against sex. It's urge and pleasure at the same time, no matter how subtle we put it. Take this for example, if you are couple engaging in pre- marital sex and I tell you STOP, would you stop? For crying out loud, I won't. In the first place it doesn't concern anything about you, much more it's none of your goddamn business.

Even politics is taking it's cue on the issue. There's this controversial Reproductive Health Bill. The is an act providing for Natinal Policy on Reproductive health Bill. All in all, the policy is anchored on the rationale that sustainable human development is better assured with a manageable population of healthy, educated and productive citizens. It guarantees universal access to medically- safe, legal, affordable and reproductive quality health care services, methods, devices, supplies and relevant information to say the least. With a little more sensible modification and alteration, I say, the idea is reasonable.

This is exactly my point. You cannot stop a couple indulging in pre- marital sex. What's there to do is to point out the the circumstances of their action. Teach them the idea and information they needed so that they would not be stupid contributors to the sorry doom of teenage pregnancies and all the stuff associated with it.

The will, ability, and commitment to respond to the needs and aspirations of our partner is solely ours. It is our obligation to decipher and distinguish between facts and myths on sex and sexuality. The problem is, affection and intimacy affects our sensibilities as human beings. If we cannot, in any way, abstain ourselves from the pleasure of sex, then, it would be a prerequisite for us to know the circumstance of our actions.

Joining the trend is easy. Just the labels that go with it calls for endurance.

Practice SAFE SEX. Happy you! Happy World! tataaaaaa...